Seduction is an art and it takes practice to master it. Her slightest touch sends shivers down your spine and even a light flirtatious glance makes you feel like grabbing her right then and there. Patience dude, patience! Seducing a girl is all about playing your cards right and waiting. You can read this informative piece on how to seduce a girl, to make the task easier for you!
1. Approach her casually and start a normal conversation
When it comes to conversations with a girl, do not be blunt about the subject. It will serve well to understand how you can construct the reputation of a subtle man. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. The entire process should be slow, poetic and musical. Usually, girls are can’t help but seek out the excitement, the alpha male, the bad boy.
2. Be original
Being a Casanova is a different thing but in order to exaggerate your personality, you become a beaten-up spider-monkey mutant. If you want to capture the moment in your bag then make an effort to get her attention to your plus points and away from negative points. Remember to be original. We tend to try to say things and act a certain way because that’s how we want to be perceived. Honestly, if someone wants to love you they will love you for who you are, not who you are trying to be. Read More: 15 Types of Guys That Girls Like To Date and Why
3. Make her feel irresistible
Always respect her opinion and ideas, and don’t criticize her. Give her compliments and never talk anything disgraceful to her friends. This is a very impressive way of approaching a girl. This will definitely bring a sweet smile on her face, as she realizes that you admire her beauty and praise it with decency…. Fuck up these old bloody concepts but you have no options left (so pitiful)!
4. Make eye contact
It’s not rocket science, really. It may often feel like it, but understanding women only “feels” impossible because you try to “think” your way around. Well, when you talk to them, you need to look like you are interested in what she is saying. (Remember to be interested!) Look into her eyes when she is talking.
5. Be humorous
They can’t be too funny and they have to be serious at the right times. But I think it’s because guys who are funny get the most attention and everyone likes them, I guess they’re seen as a catch if you get what I mean. I think that humor is great in a relationship (coming from a girl’s point of view) because if there isn’t any laughter, thin the relationship will seem way too serious… and don’t go over the top to be funny… because it’s not really cool at all.
6. Connect with her emotions
Emotion is the weapon of mass seduction. This is a big step to make her fall for you. Be sincere when you connect with her. Don’t do it if what you want is just to get the girl to bed. If there is a need to cry with her, cry with her. Bring her to somewhere romantic or maybe to a place where you both could just laugh around and connect.
7. Be more than just a friend
Don’t show yourself just a friend of her’s, rather make her your target. You can’t blame her if she sees you merely as a friend… if you have been behaving like one when you are around her. Look – it may seem natural for you to always be with her and listen to her problems. But the reality is that you must make yourself somewhat “special” if you want her to desire you.
8. Listen and respond to her
You can’t just impress a girl with your six-figure salary or expensive cars that you own. Listen with interest to everything she says. Try and avoid ‘mind drift’, where you start thinking about something else, and don’t really pay attention. Try ‘active listening’. Laugh, nod, mirror her actions, and only interrupt to encourage her and demand more detail. She will feel like a wonderful conversationalist, and that you really connect.
9. Her boyfriend’s weakness is your strength
Alright, here’s the deal – if you happen to meet an attractive girl who has never had a boyfriend in her life – stay away. Chances are that she’s just a psycho. Jokes aside now. “Sabotage The Boyfriend”. When talking to her, casually bring up the topic to “bait” her to talk about her boyfriend’s weaknesses. When you do this, you will be able to get her to keep thinking about how bad her boyfriend is… and how good you are when compared to him. [Read More: Dating A Person With A Recent Heartbreak? Here Are 12 Facts You Should Know]
10. Don’t go for the pants directly
Patience is a virtue. This is something which would truly get her chasing you. How many men do you find out there in our society who are not interested in s**ual talks? Well, ninety percent of the times it’s the man who initiates the sexual conversation with wrong timing and gets rejected instantly. Therefore, learn to never talk about s*x and avoid that topic at all costs. Play the game slowly. You would be surprised to know that the girl would start talking about s*x even when you don’t expect it. [Read More: These Are 13 Things Girls Wish Boys Should Know]